Why do other people believe they have a right to change you??? Do they think they are God or something???
I’ve seen this before, you like somebody “BUT” they’re just not the way you like, but if you can change them then you can love them. “Good luck with that.”
Some people don’t believe in Jesus but he taught some pretty smart things and you know if everyone followed these things, we would live in a wonderful world. One of the things he taught was to love your enemy and to do that, you just have to let them be your enemy. You can’t expect them to change if you like them. You will only be disappointed, finding it impossible to love them.
This is why love has no rules and unfortunately, we as a people put up our fences and barbwire to protect us from it, thinking if we are safe we will be happy. But we’re not are we? Always cautious.